Tuesday, July 05, 2011
Thoughts.
Sometimes I feel like I have a momentarily lapse in figuring what kind of person someone is. For me, somehow I get vibes from a person and my subconscious mind automatically decides whether it's a person that I don't mind becoming closer with or a person where this red alert signs start going off warning me to move as far away from this person as possible. Yup, this is how my mind actually protects myself. I actually didn't realize this at all until I wondered why I distance myself away from certain people. I trust people easily as long as you don't give me a bad vibe beforehand. It's not like pre-judgement or judging people before I even know them. Giving me no bad vibes doesn't mean that you're not a bad person or that you'll be a good friend to me. But getting bad vibes from someone usually (from past experiences) does equate to someone who might backstab or not worth being friends with. With these kinds of people, I distance myself away as much as possible, it's kind of my own way of protection and I think I dare to say that so far, I haven't experienced any THAT bad horror stories of THAT bad friends. You might think that all this is super crap and it's ridiculous but I think I'm the kind of person who put my utmost trust in my friends unless you have proven otherwise that I cannot trust you. I trust my friends so much that if you need me to hate someone because someone has done something bad to you, I think I will. I can safely say that I have quite a number of friends that I trust my life with. But you know, sometimes I feel that I have lapses and I wonder.
Will blog about Tifen's party later okay!
xx Loved At 6:47 pm
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for me its different! some of the people i could never imagine myself being friends with have become some of my very good friends!
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